
I had a lengthy discussion with a client this week. This particular client is smart, wealthy, engaging, entertaining...attractive in every way. There is this one thing however. She's overweight and has been this way for far too long.
It's a frustrating thing for me. I get irritated when I take on clients and they don't make improvements. It's a guilt thing of getting their money with little to show. Then there is the pissed off part of me that has them waltzing around with my brand on their back talking about my great works. No doubt their friends snicker about the virtues of my work.
At the conclusion of the conversation we decided that we would take the next 30 days and work on one lifestyle behavior. No need to open the whole bag of crap. Let's just focus on one nasty lifestyle practice.
In her particular case, we are going to give up the alcohol at night routine. While initially a self confessed 2 glasses of wine per night, I learned this week that "several" times per week the 2 glasses drift upwards to consuming one bottle. Shazam! This obviously leads to other dietary indiscretions.
Now I'm not a counselor for AA and I realize that this could be a more complex issue than what I'm trained to handle, but I'm going to test the waters before I call in the crew from
Intervention.
As I thought about it, I like the singular focus on fixing an issue at a time. There is really no way to complicate it. "Lilly" is not going to be drinking for the next 30 days-Cold turkey!
No tip toeing around it and no nice guy. Curse words will be used if necessary. Who knows she might even like herself more after the 30 day pledge.